Online dating first message to a man
HOWEVER, the game totally changes if a straight woman starts messaging.
If a straight woman messages a man, that man will most likely be more attractive than her (since everyoneis a reacher).
If you want to meet a man at a bar, you cross the room, plant yourself eight feet to his diagonal, wait for eye contact and smile. While you might have “made the first move”, you’re still in control, since he has to approach you. Emails that tell a man that he’s interesting are dull.
Emails that tell a man that you hope he writes back are weak.
And OKCupid found that straight women are 2.5 times more likely than men to get a response if they initiate a conversation.